Back when I didn’t have many friends to go out approaching women with, I used speed dating as an easy way to meet women, build up my confidence and experience with women and get some sex.
- At a speed dating event, participants are paired up in a series of quick five- to seven-minute 'dates.' When the time is up, a bell or timer is rung, and participants move on to their next one-on-one conversation.
- Long Island Singles Events and Long Island Singles Speed Dating Events designed by age category are a great way for like-minded people to meet. Maybe you are just into casual dating, or you may be looking for your soul mate. Long Island singles dating events are held in a laid back, casual environment, so you will feel comfortable being yourself.
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Initially, I wasn’t a very confident guy and didn’t know how to attract women, so I was only able to get 1 or 2 women to say “Yes” to seeing me again (at the end of a speed dating event, participants submit a list to the organizers of who they would like to provide their contact information to, with a “Yes” or “No” mark next to their name).
As I built more confidence and improved my ability to attract women during a conversation, I got to a point where at least 5 out 10 of the women would tick “Yes” on their forms to be able to meet me again and would then follow up with a few of them to have some casual sex.
Not all of the women are extremely beautiful at speed dating, but there are usually at least a few that are hot, cute or pretty enough to have sex with. So, if you’re not getting any results with approaching women in bars, then I recommend that you give speed dating a go.
Speed dating helped give me a good start when I wasn’t getting the best results in bars and clubs early on. I then used that experiences I had with speed dating to improve my results with attractive women in bars and clubs.
In the section on speed dating in our program, 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, I provide you with all of my best speed dating conversation starters and techniques to use when interacting with the women, so they choose “Yes” on their forms to give you their contact details.
Here is just some of what you’ll learn when you listen to the section on speed dating in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend:
- 7 attractive conversation starters that you can use to immediately make the woman interested in you.
- A common body language error to avoid when you are standing around prior to the start of the speed dating event.
- How to get women to forget about all the other guys at the speed dating event and just want you.
- What to focus on when interacting with women at speed dating, to ensure that you remain confident and are able to get maximum results from the event.
- How to completely eliminate any nervousness or anxiety when you are speed dating.
- The biggest “mental barrier” that will prevent you from success with women. You can change this in an instant and it will improve your results immediately.
- An advanced and EXTREMELY powerful attraction technique that most guys will never know. Use this technique to make women want you more than any other guy.
- How to keep the conversation fun and interesting while speed dating to avoid those annoying ‘awkward pauses and silences’.
- The single, most IMPORTANT factor that will determine whether or not a woman will be interested in you at a speed dating event. This is something you can change that will have an instant effect on your results with women.
- What to do before the speed dating sessions begin, to ensure that women are ALREADY interested in you before you speak to them. This will give you a huge advantage over all the other guys.
- How to feel confident at the speed dating event so you feel good and women feel naturally attracted to you.
- How to be seen as the alpha male (or at least one of the alpha males) amongst all the other guys, so women automatically want you as potential lover or boyfriend.
- The 2 most important things that you should do when you first sit down to speed date a woman.
- How to use eye contact to make a woman feel an instant SEXUAL attraction for you, without coming across as sleazy.
- The reason why many good guys fail with women. Plus, why Ben (from The Modern Man) now enjoys easy, natural and consistent success with women and how you can do the same.
- A rarely known secret that beautiful women DON’T want you to know, because it gives you the upper hand when talking to them.
- How to completely eliminate awkward silences and moments between you and a woman during speed dates.
- How to use flirting when talking to your speed date. Use these correctly and almost every woman at the event will want you.
- Questions to avoid asking a woman when you’re speed dating…and why.
- Various conversation topics that you can use to keep the conversation going and keep it interesting.
- An essential, emotional effect that you need to have on a woman to increase the chances of her wanting to see you again.
- A conversation example that will impress women and get them wanting to know more about you. This conversation example is easily modified, so it will be 100% true to you and your life.
- How to demonstrate that you are a fun, cool guy so that women feel PROUD to be talking to you.
- What to say if a woman asks you about what you do for a living, or what you study. Use these examples to get women laughing and wanting to see you again.
- Mistakes that other guys make at speed dating event, which you can now use to your advantage so women are more attracted and interested in you in comparison to them.
- How to approach the whole speed dating experience so it is fun and enjoyable, rather than terrifying or embarrassing.
- How to interact with other guys at the speed dating event, so they respect and admire you.
- Exactly how to increase the chances of a woman picking you over all the other guys.
- A fun conversation game to play with a woman that will make her laugh, giggle and feel great around you.
If you’d like to get some easy sex and find a girlfriend at speed dating events, listen to 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, try our techniques and it will happen.
What Type of Guys Should Try Speed Dating?
These days, a lot of guys are very busy with work or study and don’t necessarily have the time to go out approaching women every weekend. Likewise, a lot of modern men don’t have many close friends who are single, so there isn’t always someone to go out approaching women with.
Based on that, we’ve found that the following types of guys really benefit from the ease and efficiency of speed dating. Guys who:
- Work or study long hours and don’t have much free time.
- Are getting back into the dating scene after a break up or divorce.
- Want to build up their experience with women by having a few, quick sexual relationships before settling down.
- Want to reduce the odds of being rejected by only meeting women who are single.
If any of that applies to you, we highly recommend that you give speed dating a go. If you need tips on what to say and do during the speed dating event, listen to the section on speed dating in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend.
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SPEED DATING FAQ
What is SpeedProvidence Dating & UK Style?
SpeedProvidence Dating is imported directly from the UK. It is traditional Speed Dating with an English touch. A relaxed and comfortable approach to speed dating. Rewarding lovely daters with discounts and complimentary events while saying no thank you to anyone we don't think you'll fancy meeting.
Do the British Really Do it Better?
Most speed dating parties are a bit like being at a college job fair. Complete with stop watches, whistles and a footie captain yelling “times up” in yer face! We at SpeedProvidence Dating, do things a wee bit differently. We don’t find anything romantic about name tags, microphones and whistles – so we don’t use them!
Do you have to be British to attend?
Absolutely not! We are British founded and inspired but our daters are just like you.
What type of people can I expect to meet?
We tend to draw a crowd that is intelligent and amusing, sophisticated and adventurous, while always being cheeky. Daters that don’t like to settle and tend to set the trend rather than follow it. We are in part defined by our venues and our crowd reflects such.
How do I reserve my place?
Simply select the EVENT SCHEDULE tab on the homepage for a listing of our events. Simply register online and you're all set! No paper tickets are required. You will be sent a confirmation from us and your name will be noted on our Guest List.
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Do you screen your speed daters?
In the 14 years we have had the pleasure of serving daters we've noticed the nicer a dater is to us, our hosts and each other, the more matches they get. Much like a private club, not every dater is for us. Those that tend to see the good in everything and everyone - are just what we and our daters are looking for. If we don't think a dater is someone that fellow daters would get on with - we'll respectfully decline service and reserve the right to do so.
Are you affiliated with any 'Meet-Up' groups?
We think 'Meet-Up' is a lovely free service that gives those of similar interests the opportunity to connect. We do question businesses that promote their events through 'Meet-Up' groups - only to redirect you to their own website. Some companies tout that they partner with many organizations including Craigslist offerings and 'Meet-Up' groups for their events. We do not.
What happens if the event is sold out?
We wish we could accommodate everyone! Unfortunately, the fun goes quick! You can email info@speedprovidencedating.com for information as to the process of being added to the wait list. Also, it is a good idea to keep checking back on our website as sometimes reservations become available at the last minute. We are continually updating our event calendar.
What time should I show up for the Event?
Published start times can be found in the event description. Please try to avoid doing anything unsafe in your attempt to arrive to the event on time - we do like to wait for all participants to arrive. This may cause an event to start late but we feel a perfect opportunity to chat up the hosts, have a lovely refreshment and settle in. There is no set start time for the speed dating portion of the night - we like to wait for all daters to arrive, settle in and grab a refreshment before the speed dating portion.
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What is a SpeedProvidence Dating ‘Date Mate’?
A ‘Date-Mate’ means you have a match! You checked each other on your scorecards and your email address will be exchanged with this person 24 hours after the event. Only daters that garner matches are notified approx. 24 hours after the event.
How long will I chat with my Prospective ‘Date-Mate’?
Chat up your prospective 'Date-Mates' 6-7 minutes at a time. Sometimes, for our larger events, this may be shortened by 1 or 2 minutes to accommodate all of the mini-dates in a timely fashion.
So Little time; So much to say.
Don’t worry. In today’s world we tend to know in a matter of minutes if we ‘click’ with someone. You can also chat further with your prospective ‘Date-Mate’ at intermission or mingle after the event. Just have fun and go with it!
How will I know I have any SpeedProvidence ‘Date Mates’ and how do I contact my SpeedProvidence ‘Date-Mate’?
For daters that garner matches, you will be notified via email of your ‘Date-Mate’s’ first name and email within 24 hours of the event ending. Your ‘Date-Mate’ will also receive your name and email.
Can I return for free if I don't get a match at an event?
Unlike other speed dating companies that offer free spots to those that don't receive matches, we take a different approach to returning guests. Those that receive matches, are quite popular and absolutely lovely - are often invited back with discounts or with our compliments. This ensures a fabulous pool of daters that others want to meet.
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Is Food included with my SpeedProvidence Dating ticket price?
From time to time venues may provide light nibbles for the guests. This is at the venue's discretion.
How long does a SpeedProvidence Dating event last?
The length of an event is based on the number of daters in attendance. Generally, our events last about 2 hours including intermission.
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What Happens when the Event is over?
That‘s up to you! Most Daters say this is when the fun really starts! Feel free to stay and mingle for as long as you want.
I’m shy - Can I come with my Friends?
Bring your friends, have some fun! Our hosts will gladly accommodate seating for all ticketed members of your party. If you would like to be seated together please let us know. We do ask all members of your party to email in themselves to reserve.
How Many People Will I Meet?
SpeedProvidence Dating events vary in size, anywhere from 16 - 25 singles register for any given event.
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Can I pay without doing it through the Internet? Register/Info
Payment can only be accepted through the website. We only accept payment via our secure and encrypted checkout systems. If you have questions, please feel free to contact us directly at 1-866-WE SPEED.
What Should I Wear?
Well the British always like to dress it up. However, dress how you feel. No riff-raff please.
I Am Older or Younger than your age ranges – may I still attend?
Of course you may. Our age ranges are merely suggestions. We offer many age range categories. Please feel free to select the age range most comfortable for you. If you don’t see a range suitable for you please check back or let us know.
Will I be photographed or filmed?
You will absolutely not be photographed or filmed without your prior consent. While we and our daters are often called upon for special filmed events, they are scheduled as private events and are by invitation only.
What if I don't have the ability to act like a lady or gentleman?
Oh dear - how unfortunate. We do have a zero tolerance for any rudeness - of any sort. We attract such great daters but find - as in life - not every dater is ideal. Our daters are also our product and we go to great lengths to ensure everyone meets lovely daters. We want the right daters not just any daters. Behavior short of lovely will result in a dater being banned from the company. This may upset some but we feel our daters as a whole appreciate the extra effort and we hope you do too.
Can you tell me more about your promotion for Cancer Awareness?
We are super excited to announce our partnership with The Joan Gaeta Foundation for Lung Cancer Awareness. Our 'Night For Suzanne' is a great way to give back and have fun while doing it! Donate to the Joan Gaeta Foundation or any Cancer charity of your choice in the amount of your purchase - let us know you did - and we'll add you to the guest list of your desired event. It's that simple. For more information about the Joan Gaeta Foundation partnership, click here!
For additional questions, feel free to contact us at info@speedprovidencedating.com